How To Pick Up Beautiful Women
March 18, 2010 by Jo Mathews
Filed under Health & Fitness
Keen to pick up women but clueless where to start?
Here are a handful of tips about how to pick up women that will set you off on the right path to meeting the women of your dreams. What you’ll get is some hands on advice to get you success NOW. Act on the following and things will improve for you right away. But firstly let’s talk about the things that you DON’T need to waste your efforts on.
You DON’T need to be look like a movie star or a male model.
Big mistake if you think your looks are what’s holding you back. 85% of women don’t really care if you look like prince charming. But you’ll get their attention right away if you make THEM FEEL like a princess! So quit obsessing about the shape of your nose or your lack of hair or whatever.
It’s not about how rich you are or how nice your car is!
A lot of guys I know don’t drive flashy cars, some don’t drive at all and spend less than $35 on a date. But they are never without women. Their skill is in getting her to like them. If she likes you, she’ll overlook little things like what kind of car you drive or how much cash you flash. Did you get that? If she LIKES you!
Last of all stop trying to be INTERESTING!
You DON’T need an Arnold Schawarzenegger body, have an exotic accent, be famous, or any other things that you’ve thought of in the past that you’ve used as the excuse for why you didn’t get the girl.
The truth of the matter is that there really are no excuses. None of the things that are holding you back need to hold you back when it comes to picking up women. She’s just interested in the genuine guy inside. The one with the great personality. Letting him out is easy if you just relax.
Stop worrying about being interesting (that’s self obsessing) and women hate it. They can smell it and then they run. No work on being INTERESTED instead. That will get you attention. She will love that someone is actually listening and she will feel special, and that’s when she will feel good about you.When you know the right way to talk to women and also the right way to listen, nothing else matters.
Practice builds confidence and makes you better.
Go out as often as you can and talk to as many women as possible, especially at the beginning. You don’t have to go to high-pressure environments like nightclubs where it’s difficult to pick up women. Women are everywhere.
It makes no difference where you go, but it is important to talk to some women every day. The more often you do it, the better you’ll get. With practice mastering the art of picking up women will soon be within your reach.
Make sure you look and smell your best.
You’re going to want to try and look as good as you can when you go out to gain this valuable experience with women. (Remember I didn’t say you had to be “good looking.” I said you need to “look good.” There’s a difference here. You may not have any say about what you look like, but you have complete control over your appearance – what you wear, how your hair looks, how you smell, etc.)
Do the best you can with what you have. Get a fashion conscious female friend to help if you’re totally lost. Looking good gives you confidence which makes picking up women easier.
If you can afford it, invest in a classy scent for men. Women LOVE a guy who smells good. You can’t go for a cheap alternative here, they’ll smell cheap and it’ll be a turn off. If you can’t afford a good one, just stick to soap.
For steps to pick up women.
Here’s a series of 4 steps to picking up women you can actually repeat time and time again and get the same results.
Find a woman
Initial contact
Gain Rapport
Build Attraction
That’s it in a nutshell. If you chose the women you want, say something to them and then build rapport with them, they will easily be attracted to you. Your task then is to get better at all four.
You can do it!
Once too afraid to talk to women, the author wrote the Deluxe Course on The Art of Approaching to reveal the methods he learned by trial and error to you. Sign up for his free newsletter You can get a unique content version of this article from the Uber Article Directory.















